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Post by SaffiandJasmin on Jan 28, 2015 11:07:45 GMT
I was all set to bring her home this morning, but it wasn't to be. She crashed unexpectedly and was put to sleep at 9 o'clock. They phoned me and I was with her - her vet was in tears too. I am in bits - I will miss her so much..but you all know that. She will leave a massive hole in the family xx  |
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Post by Ann on Jan 28, 2015 12:43:21 GMT
Oh no, not when it was all looking so promising. I'm so sorry, that's a massive blow, you must be in bits. I'm so glad you were able to be with her for both of your sakes. It does sound as though there was more wrong than anyone had been able to find and at least when she crashed, she was in the right place. We never stop missing them and I'm sure there are no words of comfort that will help just at the moment, but Jasmin and The Boys will be there for her.
I'll be thinking of you.
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Post by B&B's mom on Jan 28, 2015 16:26:35 GMT
OH NO, I am so sorry....I am so shocked. this is really sad and I thought she's getting better. My deepest sympathy (((Lesly)))
I'm so out of words at this moment....thinking of you and your two furbabies.
RIP dear Saffi...
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Post by SaffiandJasmin on Jan 28, 2015 21:53:19 GMT
Thanks for all your kindness...missing her so much, but I have had 14 years of being blessed with her..... and it was her time to go. xx
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Post by Vicki on Jan 28, 2015 23:09:19 GMT
So sorry to hear the news. Her friends both human and feline will miss her. Take extra care of yourself and them.
All the best from Roxie and me.
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Post by B&B's mom on Jan 29, 2015 1:13:45 GMT
You're very welcome and thank you too for being there when my girls passed away, I appreciate it very much and would never forget.
Yes, you are right, you've been blessed to have her for many years and when it's time to let them go we have to accept it no matter how hard and difficult so they won't suffer anymore. You did your very best (taken her to vet) given all your love and I am sure she knows it and she's thankful to have you in her life. I understand your feelings....missing Saffi...it's tough, I've been there and still missing my girls. I kept their favorite blue blanket (I supposed to through away but I can't) and I using it, it gives me some comfort.
Hugs and take good care...
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Post by SaffiandJasmin on Jan 29, 2015 12:08:48 GMT
Yes - it always hurts when you lose a pet, but we are so blessed to be able to have them and love them. Shammi spent most of last night wailing - she sensed something had happened even though Saffi hadn't been at home for a week. Thought I had got my act together today and went to the gym...came home to a message from the pet crematorium and that set me off again. I guess it's all still very raw, especially when I thought I would have her at home with me today. I am looking through her photos and bits - lovely memories of my girl. I shall put together a photo video when I'm ready. Here's to my sweet Saffi xxxx
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Post by Ann on Jan 29, 2015 13:34:52 GMT
It'll take a long time before you can live peaceably with the loss. When Alexander was put to sleep it was a full week before I could talk about it without bursting into tears. Even now I get misty eyed when I start reminiscing about him and it's just over 20 years since he died. Having them in our lives brings us so much pleasure and Alexander and The Boys will always have a piece of my heart just as Saffi and Jasmin will always have a piece of yours.
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Post by B&B's mom on Jan 29, 2015 20:17:12 GMT
Thank you too Ann, Vicky and Queency for being there when my girls passed away, I never forget your encouraging words...deeply appreciated.
Shammi, knows what happened to Saffi, their intuition seems very strong, when Belle passed away it took three days then Beauty realized that Belle is gone for good. She's meowing non stop...poor baby. Their favorite blue blanket on the sofa where they spent most of the time cuddling, washing and sleeping together she cried and talking to that blanket all the time, how sad...Beauty was so depressed.
Still very raw for you that's for sure, take your time and take care of yourself and your two babies...remember the sweet memories you had with her and it will help a lot. I have so many pics of B&B but my old computer not working anymore so I couldn't share. I hope to see more pics of her soon when you are ready to share with us.
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Post by Linda_Wells on Feb 4, 2015 1:27:35 GMT
I am so sorry for you. I don't think you do ever really get over it. I kept thinking I saw or heard mine mine for quite a while.
Hugs to you all.
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